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		<title>By: Do Christians Idolize Virginity? - Page 6 - Christian Forums</title>
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		<dc:creator>Do Christians Idolize Virginity? - Page 6 - Christian Forums</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Feb 2013 18:18:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] I just read this article this past weekend that&#039;s based on the same thing:  How Do We Cherish Virginity Without Moralistic Fearmongering? &#8211; Gospel Driven Church  I&#039;ve also always appreciated this little sermon [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] I just read this article this past weekend that&#039;s based on the same thing:  How Do We Cherish Virginity Without Moralistic Fearmongering? &#8211; Gospel Driven Church  I&#039;ve also always appreciated this little sermon [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Donna</title>
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		<dc:creator>Donna</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Feb 2013 19:28:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Exactly.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Exactly.</p>
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		<title>By: Jared C. Wilson</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jared C. Wilson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Feb 2013 14:55:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;i&gt;Is there an abortion/teen pregnancy crisis in already-Christian communities where abstinence programs are popularly employed?&lt;/i&gt;

In some, yes. The Ross quote comes from a Christianity Today &quot;roundtable&quot; of sorts where leaders were addressing the growing reality that abstinence programs *even targeted in church communities* don&#039;t seem to be making much difference. His point -- and my point in the post -- is that simply teaching behavior modification doesn&#039;t provide motivation to change. In Christian communities, the desire to remain sexually pure is primarily seen as a means of obeying and honoring God. My point is that the heart to obey and honor God comes not from &quot;law&quot; but gospel. So it is awe of Jesus that helps us change, not simply being reminded of what&#039;s right and wrong.

&lt;i&gt;And could you clarify what you meant by your last sentence? Other goals with other means?&lt;/i&gt;

I just meant that in non-Christian (or generally irreligious) programs, the ultimate goal is not to honor and obey God but to avoid disease, prevent pregnancy, curtail abortion, or the like. Those are all great goals, of course. In the Christian worldview, they are ways to honor God. In the nonChristian worldview, they are ways to have a better society or value ourselves or some other thing -- that&#039;s what I mean by &quot;other goals.&quot; Not bad goals. And not even anti-Christian goals. Just not specifically Christian goals. And so if the goal is not to honor God but primarily to avoid disease, certainly means other than becoming Christian will be employed b/c you don&#039;t have to be a Christian to simply avoid sexually transmitted diseases or teenage pregnancy.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><i>Is there an abortion/teen pregnancy crisis in already-Christian communities where abstinence programs are popularly employed?</i></p>
<p>In some, yes. The Ross quote comes from a Christianity Today &#8220;roundtable&#8221; of sorts where leaders were addressing the growing reality that abstinence programs *even targeted in church communities* don&#8217;t seem to be making much difference. His point &#8212; and my point in the post &#8212; is that simply teaching behavior modification doesn&#8217;t provide motivation to change. In Christian communities, the desire to remain sexually pure is primarily seen as a means of obeying and honoring God. My point is that the heart to obey and honor God comes not from &#8220;law&#8221; but gospel. So it is awe of Jesus that helps us change, not simply being reminded of what&#8217;s right and wrong.</p>
<p><i>And could you clarify what you meant by your last sentence? Other goals with other means?</i></p>
<p>I just meant that in non-Christian (or generally irreligious) programs, the ultimate goal is not to honor and obey God but to avoid disease, prevent pregnancy, curtail abortion, or the like. Those are all great goals, of course. In the Christian worldview, they are ways to honor God. In the nonChristian worldview, they are ways to have a better society or value ourselves or some other thing &#8212; that&#8217;s what I mean by &#8220;other goals.&#8221; Not bad goals. And not even anti-Christian goals. Just not specifically Christian goals. And so if the goal is not to honor God but primarily to avoid disease, certainly means other than becoming Christian will be employed b/c you don&#8217;t have to be a Christian to simply avoid sexually transmitted diseases or teenage pregnancy.</p>
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		<title>By: Caleb W</title>
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		<dc:creator>Caleb W</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Feb 2013 14:44:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Is there an abortion/teen pregnancy crisis in already-Christian communities where abstinence programs are popularly employed? 

And could you clarify what you meant by your last sentence? Other goals with other means?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Is there an abortion/teen pregnancy crisis in already-Christian communities where abstinence programs are popularly employed? </p>
<p>And could you clarify what you meant by your last sentence? Other goals with other means?</p>
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		<title>By: Monday&#8217;s Links To Go &#124; Tim Archer&#039;s Kitchen of Half-Baked Thoughts</title>
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		<dc:creator>Monday&#8217;s Links To Go &#124; Tim Archer&#039;s Kitchen of Half-Baked Thoughts</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Feb 2013 13:35:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] How Do We Cherish Virginity Without Moralistic Fearmongering? Ross is using the wakefulness language in a way not often thought about: as the way to strengthen the sexual purity of the unmarried. “Risk avoidance is a weak motivator,” he says. He reminds us that awe of Christ is “far stronger.”  Share this:TwitterFacebookGoogle +1LinkedInEmailDiggRedditStumbleUponPrint   This entry was posted in links and tagged links. Bookmark the permalink.    &#8592; Politeness pays [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] How Do We Cherish Virginity Without Moralistic Fearmongering? Ross is using the wakefulness language in a way not often thought about: as the way to strengthen the sexual purity of the unmarried. “Risk avoidance is a weak motivator,” he says. He reminds us that awe of Christ is “far stronger.”  Share this:TwitterFacebookGoogle +1LinkedInEmailDiggRedditStumbleUponPrint   This entry was posted in links and tagged links. Bookmark the permalink.    &larr; Politeness pays [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Links I like &#124; Blogging Theologically</title>
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		<dc:creator>Links I like &#124; Blogging Theologically</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Feb 2013 12:14:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] How Do We Cherish Virginity Without Moralistic Fearmongering? [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Akash Charles</title>
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		<dc:creator>Akash Charles</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Feb 2013 08:19:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>That was beautiful!!!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>That was beautiful!!!!</p>
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		<title>By: JohnM</title>
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		<dc:creator>JohnM</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Feb 2013 05:00:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Should have been &quot;has not practiced&quot;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Should have been &#8220;has not practiced&#8221;</p>
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		<title>By: JohnM</title>
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		<dc:creator>JohnM</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Feb 2013 04:59:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Closer supervision of sub-adults by adults with a realistic understanding of human nature might help. Something our culture has practiced in several generations, and may not be practicable at this point, I don&#039;t know.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Closer supervision of sub-adults by adults with a realistic understanding of human nature might help. Something our culture has practiced in several generations, and may not be practicable at this point, I don&#8217;t know.</p>
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		<title>By: Melody</title>
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		<dc:creator>Melody</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 10 Feb 2013 22:38:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I like this article and have always loved what Matt Chandler has to say about grace. I have mentioned this in parenting classes when some of the parents get off track in their requirements for their children&#039;s spouses in the future. It would be nice if my children found spouses that had saved themselves for marriage but I would rather they found someone that is as committed to their relationship with Christ as they are, even if it means they came to know Him later and come from an unchurched family.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I like this article and have always loved what Matt Chandler has to say about grace. I have mentioned this in parenting classes when some of the parents get off track in their requirements for their children&#8217;s spouses in the future. It would be nice if my children found spouses that had saved themselves for marriage but I would rather they found someone that is as committed to their relationship with Christ as they are, even if it means they came to know Him later and come from an unchurched family.</p>
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