As for me, far be it from me that I should sin against the Lord by ceasing to pray for you, and I will instruct you in the good and right way. Only fear the Lord and serve him faithfully with all your heart. For consider what great things he has done for you. 1 Sam. 12:23-24
Dear Lord Jesus, Samuel’s words remind me there’s a lot more to a good friendship than prayer, but bringing our friends to the throne of grace is one of the clearest expressions of our love for them, and our love for you.
The fact that you call us your friends is humbling; and knowing that you’re always praying for us is all the motivation we need to repent of our prayerlessness.
For friends with wounded and broken hearts, grant them the gifts of your compassionate heart, comforting mercies, and tear-wiping hand. Protect them from people who would “heal their wounds lightly” (Jer. 6:14)—not taking their pain seriously.
For friends with vexed and angry hearts, thanks for your willingness to enter their fury, in the same way you engaged with Jonah’s (Jonah 4). Help them discern the real issues driving their conflicted-ness—whether it’s betrayal or loss, pride or self-righteousness. Help them see the sadness behind their mad-ness, and the ways they are mishandling real hurt in ways that only generate more hurt.
For friends with anxious and fearful hearts, grant them an experience of your centering and calming presence. To be fearful is one thing, but to be fearful and alone is almost unbearable. In the chambers of their heart, let them hear you say, “Do not be afraid. I am the First and the Last. I am the Living One” (Rev. 1:17-18).
For friends with foolish and deceived hearts, we’re prone to wander, but you’re even more prone to come after us. For friends making destructive choices, those obsessed with medicating their pain, and for others who are simply selfish and stubborn—Jesus, rescue them before they bring any more harm to themselves and others, I pray.
For friends with guilt and shame-stricken hearts, may they know your welcoming heart, finished work, and all-sufficient grace. No one loves sinners better than you, Jesus. Help all of us to remember what great things you have done for us in the gospel—for this is the real-life game changer. So very Amen I pray in your grace-full and faithful name.
