conversion

 

Dec

03

2009

Thabiti Anyabwile|7:22 am CT

The Cost of Following Jesus: Brad the Unmarried Father of Three
The Cost of Following Jesus: Brad the Unmarried Father of Three avatar

Yesterday I began a series of posts on the cost(s) of following Jesus. We would all agree that following Jesus is costly. And I suppose we would all agree that faithful evangelism and preaching must be clear about the cost of following the Lord. But what I’m interested in here is how that truth affects pastoral ministry, especially as we welcome new converts into the fold fresh from the world.

And to think about that a little, I want to sketch a series of scenarios and ask you all to share thoughts about how to care for people in these cases. With each case, I’ll do two posts. The first post will offer the scenario and the main questions. The second post will, quite frankly, steal from your good suggestions and comments and a few of my own to attempt an answer of sorts. I really want to learn from others in all of this. So, “bring da Book!” Bring your experience. Bring other resources. Let’s think together about this issue.

Scenario 1: “Brad,” the Unmarried Father of Three

Imagine a single man in his mid-thirties, let’s call him “Brad”. He’s been attending your church for several weeks now, listening attentively and showing interest in spiritual things. You have opportunity to get to know Brad a little bit. He works at a construction site nearby. He received his GED after dropping out of high school in the 10th grade. His father left the family when Brad was about 13 and he hasn’t seen him since.


Today, Brad tells you he thinks he has been born again. He trusts the Lord Jesus and wants to follow him. You ask a few questions, and it seems Brad understands the gospel clearly. He gives you a pretty good God-man-Christ-response outline. You ask him about repentance and faith. He speaks to some particular ways he is repentant and joyfully speaks of giving himself over to Christ in trust.

Next week, Brad comes to church and takes up an entire pew with a young woman and three children. After the service, he excitedly introduces the woman to you as his girlfriend, “Jill,” and the three children as his sons and daughter, “Brad, Jr.”, “Thomas,” and “Zoe.”

They’ve been living together for 13 years. The oldest child is 14, about Brad’s age when his father left. The youngest child is 3. The mother works as a waitress. The family primarily depends on Brad’s income, which sometimes has seasonal ups and downs. Brad is the only believer in the family.

Neither Brad nor Jill really value marriage, since they’ve seen a lot of heartache in abuse, abandonment, infidelity, and divorce. They’ve lived together 13 years and they’ve worked it out okay; they’re happy. Because they love one another and are committed to one another, they don’t think their relationship is sinful nor do they think “a piece of paper” matters that much.

Brad wants to be baptized and join the church.

The Questions:

How do you counsel Brad? Do you baptize him and admit him to membership?

What specifically are the costs you think he may have to pay to follow Jesus? And how do you and the church help him to pay those costs?

 
 

Oct

26

2008

Thabiti Anyabwile|7:13 pm CT

History of the Altar Call
History of the Altar Call avatar

Christian History features a brief article by Doug Sweeney and Mark Rogers on the history of the altar call.

A brief excerpt:

This common evangelistic method, known as the altar call or the public invitation, has not always been around. Successful evangelists such as George Whitefield, Jonathan Edwards, and John Wesley never gave an altar call. In fact, they did not even know what it was. They invited their hearers passionately to come to Christ by faith and regularly counseled anxious sinners after their services. But they did not call sinners to make a public, physical response after evangelistic appeals. So where did the altar call come from? When did it begin?

HT: JT who also links to this post from Andy Naselli listing some resources on the altar call.

 
 

Sep

18

2008

Thabiti Anyabwile|7:47 am CT

Lloyd-Jones on the Tests for Christian Life, 2
Lloyd-Jones on the Tests for Christian Life, 2 avatar

Here’s the remainder of Lloyd-Jones’ comments on Romans 7:4 and the tests for a true Christian. These are tests 2-4. Lord willing tomorrow, an encouragement for those who feel weak and doubtful about their position before the Lord.

The second truth is that the man who has become a Christian is in an entirely new relationship. That is w hat the Apostle is emphasizing here in particular. To be a Christian means that you are now in an entirely new relationship to God. Before, your relationship to God was one through the Law; it is now through the Lord Jesus Christ. What a change that is! My whole standing is different; my position, my status as I stand before God, is altogether different from what it was before. Here again is something which emphasizes the profound character of the Christian life. So as we talk about it we must always include this thought, that there has been an entire change in our relationship to God. We were ‘under law’, we are now ‘under grace.’

The third truth is that as Christians we have an entirely new purpose in life, namely, ‘to bring forth fruit unto God.’ The man who is not a Christian knows nothing of that purpose; he lives for himself, he brings forth fruit unto himself. He lives to satisfy himself; he is self-centered, entirely egocentric. It matters not how good a man he appears to be; if he is not a Christian, he is always egocentric. He is proud of his morality, he is proud that he is not like other people, he looks at them with disdain. All along he is pleasing himself, coming up to his own standard, trusting his own efforts and endeavours. He revolves around himself. But the man who has become a Christian has an entirely new purpose, to ‘bring forth fruit unto God.’ These are basic definitions of what it means to be a Christian.

The fourth general truth which here lies on the surface is that the Christian is a man who has been provided with an entirely new ability, a new power and strength. Certain things have happened to him in order that he should ‘bring forth fruit unto God’. He could not do that before; he can do so now. A new ability, a new power has entered into the life of this man.

There, I say, are four things which lie here on the very surface of this verse, and which are always true of the Christian. Therefore if we would know for certain whether or not we are Christians we have four thorough tests that we can apply to ourselves. Can you say quite honestly, ‘I am not the person I once was, I have been born again, I am a different person?” That is the first thing–new life. It does not mean of necessity that that evidence is always very strong or very powerful. You can be a ‘babe in Christ’, but even a babe has life. A babe is not as strong as a grown-up adult person, but he has life. The question therefore is: Are we aware of the fact that there is this ‘new life’ in us? It is not that we have done something, but that something has happened to us which causes us to be surprised at ourselves, and to wonder at ourselves that something is now true of us which was not true before.

 
 

Sep

17

2008

Thabiti Anyabwile|4:28 pm CT

Lloyd-Jones on the Tests for the Christian Life
Lloyd-Jones on the Tests for the Christian Life avatar

Yesterday we excerpted some comments from Martin Lloyd-Jones’ sermon on Romans 7:4. He pointed out four things from the text that characterized the Christian life: (1) regeneration; (2) a new relationship; (3) a new purpose; and (4) a new ability.

Lloyd-Jones continued that sermon by meditating on some tests for whether a person has entered into the Christian life and give evidence of these four characteristics. Here’s Lloyd-Jones’ thoughts:


There, I say, are four things which lie here on the very surface of this verse, and which are always true of the Christian. Therefore if we would know for certain whether or not we are Christians we have four thorough tests that we can apply to ourselves. Can you say quite honestly, ‘I am not the person I once was, I have been born again, I am a different person?’ That is the first thing–new life. It does not mean of necessity that that evidence is always very strong or very powerful. You can be a ‘babe in Christ’, but even a babe has life. A babe is not as strong as a grown-up adult person, but he has life. The question therefore is: Are we aware of the fact that there is this ‘new life’ in us? It is not that we have done something, but that something has happened to us which causes us to be surprised at ourselves, and to wonder at ourselves that something is now true of us which was not true before.

For your encouragement and comfort–and especially for those who may feel that they are very weak, and doubtful about their position–let me suggest some few simple tests. What are the tests of ‘life’? Here are some of them. the Apostle Peter writes, ‘As newborn babes, desire the sincere milk of the word, that ye may grow thereby’ (1 Peter 2:2). I put it to you in this way. Do you enjoy public meetings for worship? That is not true of the natural man, the non-Christian. Men and women of the world regard such meetings as the height of boredom; and they have no understanding of what is being said. They say, ‘What is all that? What does it mean? What has it got to do with me?’ And they would never want to hear it again. Does exposition of the Truth in preaching appeal to you? Do you like it? Do you enjoy it? Would you like to know more about it? If you can say ‘Yes’ to those questions you possess good presumptive evidence that you have new life in you. You may only be a ‘babe’; but thank God, you are born again, you are ‘in Christ’. Do not be misled by people who would apply the test of a mature, adult, fully-grown Christian to a newborn babe. ‘The natural man receiveth not the things of the Spirit of God, for they are foolishness unto him; neither can he know them for they are spiritually discerned’ (1 Cor. 2:14). If you therefore ‘receive’ these things, though you may be living and unworthy life, you are ‘born again’. ‘The natural mind is enmity against God, for it is not subject to the law of God, neither indeed can be.’ If you can say honestly that your desire is to know God and to serve Him, you are a child of God. You may be imperfect, I am not excusing you–but you must be clear about this. If, because of our failures, you are made to feel, as I said earlier, that you are not a Christian at all, then your position is such that you have to go right back to the beginning once more. Therefore, I say, do not allow any legalist to cause you to doubt your position. The newborn babe desires the ‘milk’, ‘the sincere milk of the word, that he may grow thereby’; he is interested in spiritual things. His understanding may be very small, and immature; but if he has even a glimmer of light, and if he wants more of it–if he is drawn to the truth, and likes to be amongst God’s people–then the statement that ‘We know that we have passed from death unto life because we love the brethren’ applies to him. Those are some of the tests which we can apply to ourselves. The Apostle’s assertion is that you cannot be a Christian without a death and a new birth–a ‘life’.

Lord willing tomorrow we’ll conclude with encouragements and tests 2-4.
 
 

Sep

16

2008

Thabiti Anyabwile|4:31 am CT

Lloyd-Jones on the Marks of a True Christian
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A couple weeks back, we had the privilege and joy of stopping off in London to visit with friend and fellow-worker in the gospel Mike Gilbart-Smith. Mike and his family are recently settled as the pastor of Twynholm Baptist Church in London (Fulham). Mike is an exceptional preacher, godly, faithful, and full of love for Christ’s Bride.

He’s also generous with books. He gave me a copy of Lloyd-Jones’ exposition of Romans 7:1-8:4. I thought Lloyd-Jones’ meditation on Romans 7:4 very helpful and encouraging. I’ll break the section into two parts. The first focuses on the description of the true Christian as found in Romans 7:4. It’s lengthy, but it’s worth it.

First, let us look at this verse as it gives us a general description and definition of the christian life. It is here for us on the surface. It tells us immediately that to be a Christian means that we have an entirely new life. The Apostle speaks in terms of being ‘dead’ and ‘alive.’ To be Christian is nothing less than that. It involves a death and a rising. The difference, therefore, between the Christian and the non-Christian is obviously a radical one, and not merely something superficial. To become a Christian does not mean that you just modify your former life a little, or adjust it slightly, or make it look a little better, or ‘brush it up’ as it were. There are many who conceive of Christianity in those terms. To become a Christian, they think, means in the main that you stop doing certain things, and begin to do others. There is a slight adjustment in your life, a slight modification, some things are dropped, others added; there is some improvement, you live a better life than you lived before. All of that, of course, is quite true, but that alone is not Christianity. Whatever our definition of Christianity is, it must include this idea of a death and a new life–nothing less than that. In other words, to be a Christian means to undergo the profoundest change that one can ever know. That is why the New Testament, in speaking of the way in which a person becomes a Christian, uses such terms as ‘Ye must be born again’, ‘a new creation’, a ‘new creature’. It is nothing less than regeneration. Naturally, generation is fundamental; it is the giving of life and bringing into being. Becoming a Christian involves regeneration, and the spiritual far surpasses the natural. So here at once, and on the very surface, we are made to realize that to be a Christian is no small matter, and that the difference between the Christian and the non-Christian is not a slight one. It is the greatest difference possible between two human beings. It is no other than the difference between life and death. That is why I say that the main trouble with most of us in the Church today is that our whole concept of the christian life is much too small. We seem to have lost this idea, though we may pay lip-service to it, that it involves as radical a process and as deep-seated a change as is conceivable. That is the first truth.

The second truth is that the man who has become a Christian is an entirely new relationship. That is what the Apostle is emphasizing here in particular. To be a Christian means that you are now in an entirely new relationship to God. Before, your relationship to God was one through the Law; it is now through the Lord Jesus Christ. What a change that is! My whole standing is different; my position, my status as I stand before God, is altogether different from what it was before. Here again is something which emphasizes the profound character of the Christian life. So as we talk about it we must always include this thought, that there has been an entire change in our relationship to God. We were ‘under law,’ we are now ‘under grace.’

The third truth is that as Christians we have an entirely new purpose in life, namely, ‘to bring forth fruit unto God’. The man who is not a Christian knows nothing of that purpose; he lives for himself, he brings forth fruit unto himself. He lives to satisfy himself; he is self-centered, entirely egocentric. It matters not how good a man he appears to be; if he is not a Christian, he is always egocentric. He is proud of his morality, he is proud that he is not like other people, he looks at them with disdain. All along he is pleasing himself, coming up to this own standard, trusting his own efforts and endeavours. He revolves around himself. But the man who has become a Christian has an entirely new purpose, to ‘bring forth fruit unto God’. These are basic definitions of what it means to be a Christian.

The foruth general truth which here lies on the surface is that the Christian is a man who has been provided with an entirely new ability, a new power and strength. Certain things have happened to him in order that he should ‘bring forth fruit unto God’. He could not do that before; he can do so now. A new ability, a new power has entered into the life of this man.

There, I say, are four things which lie here on the very surface of this verse, and which are always true of the Christian.

Tomorrow, Lord willing, the four tests Lloyd-Jones offers for knowing whether we’re Christians.
 
 

Jan

03

2008

Thabiti Anyabwile|8:29 am CT

Evangelism, Conversion, Revival, and Prayer
Evangelism, Conversion, Revival, and Prayer avatar

My reading project this year is personal evangelism. So, Lord willing, I’ll be working through a year’s worth of reading on the topic, exploring it from various angles, with the hopes of developing and implementing a personal plan for doing the work of an evangelist.

FBC holds about 700-750 folks in a service. Currently, we’re running about 300 on a Sunday morning. My fervent prayer this year is to see the remaining 400-450 seats filled with newly converted Christians. I’m asking the Lord to save at least 400 people through the preaching, witness and ministry of FBC. And of that 400, I’m praying that more than a few would be used of the Lord as pastors to His people. And of the 400, I’m praying the Lord would be pleased to save and use another Paul or Augustine or Calvin or Haynes or Stott or Sproul or MacArthur or Priscilla or Lydia or Elliott or Moon or Susannah or Aylward.

First up in my reading is Ian Murray‘s little book, Spurgeon v. Hyper-Calvinism. In the first chapter, a short bio of Spurgeon setting his debate against hyper-calvinism in context, Murray penned these helpful words:

This book is not about Calvinism and Arminianism. Our concern in the following pages is to deal with the error that lies on the side of Calvinism furthest from Arminianism. But one point needs to be made here on the manner in which Arminianism affects the understanding of revival. Special times of blessing which we call revival are times which see an enlargement of the Spirit’s normal work. That being so it must follow that, when the church’s understanding of the Spirit’s normal work is wrong, her understanding of revival will also be wrong. Is it the normal work of the Spirit to convert sinners whenever they decide upon it? Can men be born again by their own resolutions? If the answer is ‘Yes’, and if that is how we are to understand Scripture, then it follows that we will look upon revivals simply as times when many make that choice. It was because such a deduction was based upon a wrong understanding of conversion in the last century that people began to see no differences between evangelistic campaigns and revivals; they became regarded as synonymous and capable of being organised by the same means. But if we believe the work of conversion is a work beyond all human ability, and that it requires an act of creative power giving life to the dead, then times of revival will be seen as times which can no more be ‘promoted’ than can the conversion of a single individual. Certainly the church must labor at all times for the salvation of the lost but whether in the case of one or of hundreds, ‘the increase’ belongs finally with God (1 Cor. 3:6). (Iain H. Murray, Spurgeon v. Hyper-Calvinism: The Battle for Gospel Preaching, Banner of Truth, 1995, pp. 28-29)

It’s a good reminder. My part is to pray, preach, and proclaim the Good News. And it’s encouraging to remember that my petition is really for an enlargement of the Spirit’s normal work of conversion. It does not depend finally on me but on the sovereign blowing of the Spirit in regenerating men (John 3). If anything, my request is too small. Lord, I believe. Please help my unbelief.
 
 

Aug

17

2007

Thabiti Anyabwile|10:48 am CT

One Man’s Journey from Judaism to Islam to Christianity
One Man’s Journey from Judaism to Islam to Christianity avatar

Here’s an interesting story of a Jewish man who became a radical Muslim and then a Christian. It’s part of 6-part series CNN is producing called God’s Warriors. You can imagine the slant this will take. (HT: Sam)