Mar

26

2008

Tullian Tchividjian|9:06 am CT

Basic Thoughts On Character
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Let’s face it—we live in a society fascinated with image and style. What we look like, sound like, and live like on the outside is very important to us. It’s important to us because pop-culture has convinced us that if we can “get it right” on the outside, all of our wildest dreams will come true. Three popular reality TV shows reflect this unadulterated fascination: Extreme Makeover (what we look like), American Idol (what we sound like), and Extreme Makeover Home Edition (what we live like).

There are many problems with our preoccupation with “style.” But perhaps the most detrimental one is that it leads very quickly to a restless, substance-less existence.

The greatest men and women in history have always been more preoccupied with substance (what’s on the inside) than style (what’s on the outside). Someone once said that the difference between image and character is just this: image is who people think you are; character is who you really are. In other words, image has everything to do with what’s on the outside (style), character has everything to do with what’s on the inside (substance). Os Guinness once defined character this way:

Character is the inner form that makes anyone or anything what it is—whether a person, a wine, or a historical period. Thus character is clearly distinct from such concepts as personality, image, reputation, or celebrity. Character is the essential “stuff” a person is made of.

This means that our fascination with image and style has nothing to do with being truly human. It has nothing to do with who we really are. A few years back even shock-rocker Marilyn Manson had enough sense to speak of how silly our fascination with image is in his song “Beautiful People.” Real life—true humanness—consists in so much more than what we look like, sound like, and live like. We are, according to Psalm 139:14, “fearfully and wonderfully made.” The reason we move restlessly from one image to the next and one trend to the next, is because deep inside we know there has to be more to life than style. Our souls cry out for substance. Because all human beings were made in the image of God, we know intuitively that we were created and designed for dignity, not vanity; substance, not style. “We were”, according to the rock band Switchfoot, “made to live for so much more”, but in our pursuit of image and style, we have lost ourselves. And as a result, we are restless, characterless, and understandably unsatisfied.

The good news, however, is that we need not remain lost and unsatisfied. Proverbs 3:5-6 says, “trust in the Lord with all your heart (the inside stuff) and lean not on your own understanding (the outside stuff). In all your ways acknowledge him and he will direct your paths.” This is where real life—true character—begins!

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