On My Shelf: Life and Books with Sam Allberry

​Right now I’m reading a fairly typical mix for me: ​

​I don’t normally re-read books. But because I know they’ll always make me laugh I re-read Bill Bryson’s Notes from a Small Island and A Walk in the Woods once a year or so. I regularly re-read C. S. Lewis, especially the Chronicles of Narnia—I’ve finally found separate, hardback, and (crucially) unnumbered editions—but also his Cosmic trilogy and theological books too. There are few writers who are such a pleasure to read. 

​It’s a little obscure now, but Don Carson and John Woodbridge’s ​Letters Along the Way has had a huge effect on me, and (again, unusually for me) I’ve re-read it several times. It is letters from a fictional seminary professor to a younger Christian over the course of the latter’s early days as a Christian and his growth in pastoral ministry. It’s chock-full of all the wisdom and insight you’d expect from these two authors, but very affecting given the epistolary format. I learned as much from the godly character of the letters as I did from their content. Another is John Piper’s Brothers We Are Not Professionals, for all the deep wisdom he manages to share across a wide range of issues. Finally, I first read John Stott’s The Message of 2 Timothy 20 years ago as a student. It’s both a sparkling exposition and also wonderful guide to pastoral ministry. 

​Funnily enough, it’s been people more than books. When I was first working through this issue there weren’t many books on it. But key to the issue is realizing that the Bible doesn’t have a theology of sexuality so much as a theology of marriage, and that all we believe as Christians about sexual ethics and sexual identity flows from that. So good thinking on how marriage expresses the gospel has really helped me, and for that Tim and Kathy Keller’s The Meaning of Marriage has been especially helpful. 

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It would either be John Piper’s The Pleasures of God or Roger Steer’s Hudson Taylor: A Man in Christ. Both of these, in complementary ways, radically reshaped my understanding of what mattered most in life, especially God’s pleasure in being known and his jealousy for his name—explained wonderfully by Piper and modeled powerfully by Taylor​. These are two books I recommend more than any others. If someone’s not a natural reader (and many aren’t), then the Taylor biography is every bit as gripping as a Harry Potter novel, so I often encourage people to start there. Good biographies are a great way to introduce people to doctrine and theology. But for those who do enjoy slightly deeper reading, the Piper book is an absolute must. 

​I once heard John Stott say that Christianity is “one long shout of joy,” and at the time I was a little cynical. But I’m seeing more and more the truth in this. It’s not that life itself is necessarily more joyful (though I’ve little to complain about), but that following Christ is. I continue to learn (and to need to learn) that Jesus himself is the good news and the prize. He’s never the means to some other end, but the glorious end himself. I think I’ve always known that, but it’s becoming more real. Recently turning 40 has helped with that. It’s now more obvious what I don’t have (and most likely never will). But it’s also more obvious what I do have, and won’t ever lose—and that matters much, much more.

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Also in the On My Shelf series: Ray Ortlund, Brett McCracken, Mez McConnell, Erik Raymond, Sandra McCracken, Tim Challies, Anthony Moore, Sammy Rhodes,  Karen Ellis, Alastair Roberts, Scott Sauls, Karen Swallow Prior, Jackie Hill Perry, Bruce Ashford, Jonathan Leeman, Megan Hill, Marvin Olasky, David Wells, John Frame, Rod Dreher, James K. A. Smith, Randy Alcorn, Tom Schreiner, Trillia Newbell, Jen Wilkin, Joe Carter, Timothy George, Tim Keller, Bryan Chapell, Lauren Chandler, Mike Cosper, Russell Moore, Jared Wilson, Kathy Keller, J. D. Greear, Kevin DeYoung, Kathleen Nielson, Thabiti Anyabwile, Elyse Fitzpatrick, Collin Hansen, Fred Sanders, Rosaria Butterfield, Nancy Guthrie, and Matt Chandler.

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